Let Oral Sex Enhance Your Sexual Encounter

Oral sex can be a very stimulating way of igniting your sexual encounter into a frenzy, but unfortunately many couples still view the activity with a negative point of view. Many that avoid oral sex have obviously not received it; or they received it by someone who lacked the experience to provide it properly. One of the problems found in many bedrooms these days is that too many people are in a hurry to get to the promised land. Sex should not be a dash to the finish, but more like a 7 course meal to be slowly savored and remembered.

It is easy to allow our busy and stressful lives to send us off course. By the time we reach the bedroom we are often tense and tired. We still want to have sex and we want to enjoy it, but sometimes we just feel the need to take some short cuts. This is not too say that everyone approaches sex in this manner, but it does happen consistently. It is better to have great sex one day a week then engage in poor sex every night. Sex is not just a pleasurable activity. The encounter should be a bonding experience that should be totally enjoyed at a pace that builds slowly and then explodes.

Oral sex does not need to be taboo; although that might make it more exciting. There are many reasons some people avoid giving oral sex. Some women are turned off at the thought of going down on their partner and some men either want to simply drive fast and furious. In some cases the woman or the man simply had bad experiences in the past. The point here is not to be selfish. Communication here is key once again. Guide your partner into beginning each sexual encounter with intense foreplay that includes awesome oral sex.

Let them know what works for you and find out what works for them. Technique is important. Just like you don’t want to rush into intercourse, you don’t want to rush into oral sex either. There are many sensitive spots that can be explored before the woman gets to the penis or the man arrives at the clitoris. Take it slowly, allow your body to wind down after the long day. Allow each step to build to the next.

Studies have shown that more than half of all men surveyed said they had received oral sex during the week whereas only a third of the woman could say the same. As a woman don’t be afraid to tell your partner that you enjoy oral sex as much as they do and that you would like to have it before intercourse. Both partners should be as willing to give as to receive. If your partner frowns on oral sex try to find out why and work to resolve the issue. The orgasms gained from oral sex can be exceptionally stimulating and totally enhance the intercourse that follows. Get the most out of your sexual encounter by exploring the benefits of good oral sex.