Men Have Sexual Soft Spots Too

Most men know that women have soft spots that set the tone for the sexual encounter. However, women should know that men have soft spots too. If you don’t want your man rushing to the finish line; you can assist in altering his pace by utilizing the soft spots that will help him to slow down and smell the roses along the way.

Men are well known for being ready for the sexual encounter on the drop of a dime, but unfortunately many hit the road speeding out of control and the race is over before it ever began. If you can get your man to connect with his soft side you can increase your chances of a enjoyable conclusion. Let’s explore some of those soft spots that will stimulate your man, but extend the journey down the sexual raceway.

Your man could very well be stressed and many men believe that sex relieves that stress. If you rub his temples you can help relieve that tension and he won’t rush to the finish line in hopes of accomplishing the same task. It has also been shown that many men like to have their hair stroked just like women do. Curl your fingers up in his hair and twirl them in a circular motion and you would be surprised how much it will slow him down to enjoy it.

Most men are quite sensitive around the ears. Use your tongue around his ears and he will let you know how much he enjoys it. The neck is another soft spot for men. Caress his neck and you will be surprised how relaxed he will become. Men love to have their inner thigh caressed as well. There are many soft spots for men and every man is different. You need to take the time to find the soft spots that will calm and excite your man at the same time. He needs to know what your soft spots are as well.

Communicating in sex is as important as it is in the relationship. Get the most out of your sexual encounter by exploring and defining each others soft spots. It will be a journey of exploration worth taking and the end result may be more rewarding then you ever fantasized possible